30-DECEMBER-2024 - HOW TO CHOOSE MENTORS

THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?

TITLE: HOW TO CHOOSE MENTORS

The bible verse for today’s devotional is: Proverbs 13:20 (NIV)
"Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." 

Devotional

Choosing the right mentor is essential. A good mentor should be someone who loves God, lives out their faith, and genuinely cares about your growth. They should encourage you to trust God, develop your character, and make wise decisions. The right mentor will walk beside you, supporting your journey with both love and truth.

Qualities of a Good Mentor:

  • They are spiritually mature and humble.
  • They are competent at what they do, else they won't be able to give what they don't have or have not experienced..
  • They lead by example and practise what they teach.
  • They show patience and empathy.
  • They challenge you to become better.

You can see we did not say ‘rich’

Here are a few reflective questions:

  • Who do I admire and respect? 
  • What qualities would I look for in a mentor? 
  • How would having a good mentor impact my journey?

Let us pray

Lord, help me to find mentors who can guide me closer to You. Give me wisdom in choosing those who can help me grow spiritually, emotionally, and practically. Amen!

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:

  • God knows when I will get there
  • I will choose wisely
  • I will make informed choices
  • My mentor is wise

Do have a blast today seeking your mentor. I’ll see you tomorrow

 


29-DECEMBER-2024 - THE POWER OF MENTORING

THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?

TITLE: THE POWER OF MENTORING

The bible verse for today’s devotional is: Proverbs 15:22 (NIV)
"Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed."

Devotional

Mentors can help you grow by sharing their wisdom and experiences. They’re like a compass that points you in the right direction, helping you avoid mistakes and overcome challenges. God often places mentors in our lives to encourage and support us in the areas we need the most.

Mentors are like guides on a hike; they’ve travelled the paths before you, so they know where the challenges and shortcuts are. We often seek mentors to help us avoid mistakes and learn from their wisdom. Having someone who believes in you, prays for you, and encourages you makes the journey easier and more fulfilling.

Here are a few reflective questions:

  • Who in my life has been like a mentor to me? 
  • What qualities do they have that inspire me? 
  • How does their guidance help me feel more confident on my journey?

Let Us Pray

God, thank You for placing mentors in my life. Open my heart to learn from those with wisdom and experience. Help me to value their counsel and grow through their guidance. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:

  • God knows when I will get there
  • I do not know it all
  • I will be open minded to receive from my mentors

Have a splendid day. Take good care. I’ll see you tomorrow.

 


28-DECEMBER-2024 - MIND MAPPING

THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?

TITLE: MIND MAPPING

The bible verse for today’s devotional is: Proverbs 16:3 (NIV)
Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.

Devotional

When you hear the term "mind mapping," think of it as brainstorming your future. A mind map is a visual way to lay out your goals, dreams, and the steps you’ll need to take to reach them. Just like a GPS needs a destination, your journey in life needs a vision of where you're headed.

Creating a mind map for your life helps you visualize each area of growth—spiritual, academic, social, and personal. By putting your goals on paper, you’re asking God to guide your steps and help you stay focused on the journey.Creating a mind map helps you see where you’re going. It allows you to break down big dreams into smaller, achievable steps. God wants to partner with you in creating a clear vision for your life. With a plan in mind, it’s easier to pray, set goals, and move forward in faith.

Here are a few reflective questions:

  • How could a mind map help me see my vision more clearly? 
  • How does knowing God cares about my plans make me feel about the journey?

Let Us Pray:

Lord, I commit my plans to You. Help me to see each step clearly and guide me as I move toward my dreams. Show me Your path, and give me wisdom in my journey. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:

  • God knows when I will get there
  • I have a mind map which aligns with God’s will
  • I will follow my mind map

Have a beautiful day. Take good care of yourself. I’ll see you tomorrow.

 


27-DECEMBER-2024 - KNOWING WHEN YOU ARE THERE

THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?

TITLE: KNOWING WHEN YOU ARE THERE

The quote for today’s devotional is:
 "Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome." – Arthur Ashe

Devotional:
How do you know when you’ve “arrived” at a goal or reached success? We often think achieving specific milestones will give us a sense of completeness or fulfillment, but sometimes, even when we get there, we still feel like something is missing. Knowing when you’ve reached your goal isn’t just about ticking boxes; it’s about recognizing growth, feeling a deep sense of purpose, and understanding the journey it took to get there.

A great example is Maya Angelou, who accomplished countless things in her lifetime as an author, poet, and activist. Yet, even as her fame and recognition grew, she continuously strived for more personal and artistic growth. She didn’t measure success just by awards or achievements; instead, she viewed “arrival” as ongoing personal fulfillment, peace, and impact on others.

Knowing when you're "there" isn’t about comparing yourself to others or waiting for validation. It’s about seeing your progress, acknowledging your hard work, and feeling the joy of being aligned with your purpose. Recognizing when you’re there means you understand your journey and feel content without needing external validation.

Here are a few reflective questions:

  1. Do I sometimes feel unfulfilled, even after reaching a goal?
  2. How can I measure my growth and success beyond just accomplishments?
  3. What areas of my life currently give me a sense of peace and purpose?
  4. How do I think I’ll know when I am “there” ?

Let us pray:
Lord, help me appreciate the moments when I have reached fulfilment in my journey. Give me peace in my progress and the wisdom to see purpose beyond achievements. May I find joy in the journey, knowing that I am walking in alignment with Your will. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:

  • God knows when I will get there
  • I embrace my journey, recognizing growth and purpose with every step.
  • I am fulfilled by the progress I make, and I trust that I am exactly where I need to be.

Have an awe-mazing day. Take good care of yourself. I’ll see you tomorrow.

 


26-DECEMBER-2024 - THE DANGERS OF ASSUMPTIONS

THE MAIN THEME: WHEN DO I GET THERE?

TITLE: THE DANGERS OF ASSUMPTIONS

The quote for today’s devotional is:
 "Assumptions are the termites of relationships." 

– Henry Winkler

Devotional:
Assumptions can lead us down a path of misunderstanding and missed opportunities. When we assume, we create a reality in our minds that may be far from the truth. Assumptions are often based on our past experiences, biases, or incomplete information, and they can damage relationships and hinder personal growth. 

Imagine a friend who stops replying to your messages. You might assume they’re upset with you when, in reality, they’re going through a tough time and need support. Without checking in, assumptions can cause us to act on false beliefs and even push others away.

A powerful example of the danger of assumptions is the story of NASA’s Mars Climate Orbiter. A simple assumption about measurement units caused the loss of a $125 million spacecraft. One team assumed measurements in metric units while the other used imperial, leading to its crash. This example shows that assumptions, even small ones, can have costly consequences.

Breaking free from assumptions requires asking questions, clarifying information, and having an open mind. Doing so leads to better understanding, stronger relationships, and greater trust.

Here are a few reflective questions:

  1. Do I often find myself making assumptions about people or situations?
  2. How have assumptions impacted my relationships or decisions in the past?
  3. How can I develop a habit of asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions?

Let us pray:
Lord, help me to avoid assumptions and seek truth with an open heart. Give me the courage to ask questions, listen deeply, and approach each situation with understanding and patience. May I see others through Your eyes, free from judgement and misunderstandings. Amen.

Please say these words of affirmation. Say them, mean them, own them and live them:

  • God knows when I will get there
  • I choose to approach life with curiosity and clarity.
  • I will seek understanding and truth in my relationships and decisions.
  • I have courage to ask questions and I have the patience needed to listen deeply.

Be unassuming today. Take good care of yourself. I’ll see you tomorrow.

 


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